My Husband Married Me As A Single Mum But He Has Refused To Accept My Child



Please permit me to pour out my mind......

Through out my youth days,i stayed with my grandmother,it took me a while before realising she isn't my mum, due to her age and the place we were,no proper upbringing, anything i do,she doesn't complain or scold me much,at a certain age,the male tenants started abusing me sexually but i saw nothing wrong in it cos i was so naive...



I got admitted to one of the polytechnics and left her place,then, i have known whom my parents are but discovered my mum to be the social type who doesn't care about her children, my dad on the other hand was trying but he can't do much cos of health issues..

I managed to wrap up my OND with the help of God and little support from my dad and decided to remain there to start afresh,at 26,i met this man who promised me heaven and earth..


At 27 i got pregnant for him then the drama started, he flew and never looked back,i searched and cried ,yet nothing positive came out...


At 28,i gave birth to a beautiful girl with no father around or any of my family help cos in my family,everybody is on your own,i started struggling with my life with a job of #8,500 monthly, i only have this friend(male) who has been with me even bf i gave birth, he stood by me thru thick and thin in my journey...


Fast forward to 2015,he (my male friend) proposed to me and i foolishly accepted his proposal thinking i know him too well,he took me to his family and they all accepted me while mine rejected him cos he is a hustler but i think we know and understand each other so well.



One thing i noticed was that his aunt and mum tried to ask if i can so tolerate his excesses, not knowing they're trying to warn me...

We got married late last year and early this year,the problem started, he doesn't want my child in the house,anytime he is around,my child will either be in the kitchen or balcony. I tried talking to him and he promised to change but nothing has happened,my loving and brilliant child has now turned to a slave,and there is no good relationship between us again cos i try to balance things....

To cut it all short,i am pregnant now and not really at peace,i am considering aborting this child cos i don't have peace in this marriage, he may decide to send my girl away when his child arrives,i am really so confused,he has never given me a dime to take care of her,and i quit working cos the pregnancy...

Please help me before i loose it,i am now 33 but can't think my age at all.



Source: Stella Dimokokorkus Blog
My Husband Married Me As A Single Mum But He Has Refused To Accept My Child My Husband Married Me As A Single Mum But He Has Refused To Accept My Child Reviewed by Elora Akpotosevbe on November 19, 2017 Rating: 5

No comments:

Powered by Blogger.